My sweet Mason. My sweet, squishy, stubborn Mason. That's right, I said my Mason! No, Mason isn't my squishy baby. He is, however, my squishy nephew. (Note the excessive use of the word squishy... Mason is very squishy).
Mason’s birth story is one that I’m bumping ahead in the queue because it’s one I’m so excited to tell. It’s a story that I’m going to tell much more personally and honestly than any other birth story. It’s a story that’s so important and close to my heart, and such a huge and special part of my relationship with my older sister. Mason is my sister, Meghan’s, fifth (and last) baby.
When my sister called me crying last winter, I had a pretty good feeling why. “I’m pregnant!” she sobbed. I remember pacing excitedly around my living room and trying not to let my smile leak into my voice. I was bouncing my 5 month old stage 5 clinger on my hip, and 2000 miles away, she was probably doing the same with her equally clingy 1.5 year old. We were together in that we were completely touched out and a little overwhelmed with motherhood as it was, whether or not we wanted to admit it. And here, another baby!
So why was I smiling?
My sister is an amazing mother. The birth of her first daughter was the first labor I ever attended. I was a few weeks away from my 12th birthday, and my sister had just turned 16. We were still babies ourselves. It was through that pregnancy and the first few years of Abigail’s life that my sister and I first started building our now incredibly close I’d-do-anything-for-you bond. Motherhood is, in a sense, our thing. Of course I knew my sister could handle a fifth baby. And I knew that this baby was going to be a blessing.
Mason proved himself to be a blessing long before he was born. It was through this pregnancy that my sister learned of some health issues that could have been missed had she not been under maternity care. To us, this was the only sign we needed that Mason was meant to be an instrumental part of the family.
In that initial phone call, I promised my sister I would be there for this birth. I was determined to photograph her last pregnancy, labor, birth, Mason meeting his siblings—all of it. By some stroke of luck, I was able to schedule my trip for the weeks spanning her due date and document his birth.