Savannah Boudoir Photography // Strength & a Sense of Humor featuring Megan

I am SO thrilled to feature Megan on the blog today! I’ve been excited about photographing her session since the day she booked it.

Megan and I go back a long way. My favorite thing about Megan is how she has always been able to make me laugh, no matter the situation. (You can trust that there was SO much laughter during this session!) She’s always been such an amazingly strong person too, and I really wanted to capture that strength in her portraits. Megan also wanted to portray a laid back sense of humor and "just a chill vibe." “The crew definitely achieved the vibe I had hoped for!” she says.

I am totally thrilled with the outcome of this session, and I’m happy to report that Megan was too!

"I was so nervous at first, and the energy changed as soon as I walked in. Emily and her crew made the experience fun for me and I didn't feel uncomfortable at all."

Recap! // The 2015 Tacoma Boudoir Marathon

I am so thrilled to finally be sharing the results of my first boudoir marathon, hosted right here in Tacoma, WA at the Hotel Murano! I had such an amazing time meeting these ladies and getting to know each one of them. There was so much care and planning that went into each and every session, and I love that everyone who participated had so much fun with it!

This marathon was an absolute blast for me to put together. One of my favorite things about boudoir is the pampering aspect of each session. I absolutely loved setting up the whole day as an event, not just a series of photo sessions.

Megan Bourque Cosmetology did an amazing job on hair & makeup!

Feel free to scroll through the gallery below to see some of the gorgeous portraits from this marathon! (Keep in mind that this is a boudoir marathon! These are sexy images!)

A huge thank you to the ladies who participated in this event (especially knowing that it was a modeling event--you brave women!). I am so excited for the upcoming Tulsa Boudoir Marathon (there's one spot left!), and may or may not have one more Seattle-Tacoma boudoir marathon in the works before our move later this year! ;)

xoxo
Emily

Mothers: Tell your daughter you're pretty.

My one-year-old daughter is in that stage where she attempts to repeat everything I say. The other day, I was thumbing through a catalog and she heard me exclaim, "Ooh, pretty!" She grinned and repeated—“Ooh, pri-iy!" It just tickles me to death to hear her repeat words back to me with such clarity and conviction, so I couldn't help but encourage her over the next few days. "Bug, can you tell the doggy she's pretty?" "Gee! Gee pri-iy!"

In our culture, we put a whole lot of emphasis on pretty. Because of this, as mothers, we want our daughters to feel pretty. When my little bug gets out of the bathtub and sees herself in the mirror, I always catch myself saying, "Who is that pretty girl? It's you! You're such a pretty girl, Liv!" Until recently, the impact of those words never really occurred to me. I just felt that I was encouraging my daughter because, after all, don't we all want to feel and believe that we're pretty?

My sweet little Liv. She's very "pri-iy!"

This morning, an interesting TED Talk came across my news feed. It was titled, "Why thinking you're ugly is bad for you." Bad for you? I thought. Well it's not a good thing, but is it really bad for you?

In the 12 minute lecture, Meaghan Ramsey discusses how feeling ugly negatively effects all of us, right down to test scores and job placement. The truth of it is, because our culture puts so much emphasis and effort into aesthetics, when we feel ugly, we feel less valuable, and so we don't perform as well. As I watched the video, I thought about my little girl. Of course I want to change the world; of course I want pretty to mean less, or at least something different. But for the next twenty years, as she's growing up and she's impressionable to her peers and how they see her, what can I do to prove to her that she's worthy—or, in modern words, "pretty?"

All of my parenting books tell me that my daughter is a sponge. That she will observe the world around her and what she absorbs will form her personality. And, above all, she will mimic how my husband and I live our lives and see and treat ourselves. So, if I don't think I'm pretty, will my little girl believe me when I say she's pretty?

"Mom, stop it, you're embarrassing me with all this talk about how pretty I am."

One thing I love about working with mothers on boudoir sessions is that giving them a confidence boost, showing them how incredibly beautiful they are, will spill over into their everyday lives. When I was growing up, I never heard my mother compliment herself. She would always agonize over being fat, wrinkly, or some other aspect of herself that she hated. And so, though I was always thin and "pretty," like most girls, I still nit-picked at myself. I still hated my tummy and my crooked teeth and when I looked in the mirror, those were the first things I saw. I have to wonder—if my mother had told me she was beautiful, would I have had a different idea of beauty?

Food for thought, ladies. Happy Monday! Do something awesome this week!